- Stop Evaluating Your Partner
- Stop Trying To Make Your Partner Wrong
- Ask How You Can Help
Points one and two above are very subtle. So pay attention. When you get really good at those points, people say things like “I feel like I can be myself around you” “you don’t judge me” “I feel like I can tell you anything” “I always feel better after I talk to you”. These are signs that people trust you, and they like being with you. Unfortunately, most people in every type of relationship (not just intimate) do the opposite of points one and two (they evaluate and they make people wrong). You can have better relationships than them if you work on these points!
About the author: Kramer Cruz is a self-help author, personal success coach, public speaker, and Blogger of Life In The Leap, Kramer prides himself in providing his clients the best he has to offer.
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